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    September 30

    心理测试

    隔天当你醒来时,最希望看到的是什么样的天气?

            A.晴朗没有什么云的大晴天

            B.满天的云,阴阴凉凉的天气

            C.乌云笼罩,雨要下不下的闷热天气

            D.天气有许多特殊形状云的小晴天

    选择「晴朗没有什么云的大晴天」的人

      一遇到伤心的事,你第一个想做的就是暂时的逃避痛苦,因为你不是那时在第一时刻就可以反应的人,所以你必须花很多时间才可以正视出问题的所在,喝酒和其他麻醉的方式,是你会先採用的方法,先减缓伤心对你的杀伤力。

    选择「满天的云,阴阴凉凉的天气」的人

      虽然你很希望能转移注意力,让你暂时去忘记一些伤心的事,可是这并不如你想像中的容易,因为你是一个很重感情的人,你会去旅行,或是躲到没有人认识你的地方,不过暂时逃避,并不能真正解决你的伤心,一场旅行可能会反而成为你的回忆之旅。

    选择「乌云笼罩,雨要下不下的闷热天气」的人

      你是那种除非自己想通,否则别人再怎么说也说不听的人,可能你有着坚强的外表,可是在你内心深处却是极端脆弱,你的倔强,使你不愿在人前正视你的受伤,你只会拒绝和别人沟通,一个人生闷气的孤立在那。

    选择「天气有许多特殊形状云的小晴天」的人

      其实你是一个内心非常纯净的人,虽然你也想要坚强,或是以无事来粉饰的你的伤口,可是这对单纯的你而言,却是很困难的,你可能可以利用一时的快乐,来忘记痛苦,可是一旦不小心遇到和以前相关的东西,引发的伤痛将是立即且明显

     

     

    girls & boys

    如果你喜欢他就告诉他,即使他拒绝了,也不会丢面子,因为在他心里,会因为你的真情而非常非常感激你。

    如果他喜欢你,要明确告诉他你对他的感情,喜欢就是喜欢,不喜欢就是不喜欢,千万不要怕伤害他而忧郁不决,不要让他等到最后才受到抛弃,因为男孩子的心一旦碎了就很难很难再好起来。

    男孩子也有自己的脾气,只是因为爱你而压抑着,不要总是任性,有时他们的决定也很有道理。

    男孩子莫名的向你发脾气,那时因为爱你,把你当成最亲,最贴心,最有安全感的人,千万不要冲他发脾气反击,静静的等着,等他消气后满怀后悔来抱你。

    他为你准备的东西,即使再难看,再廉价,也要去珍惜,因为那里面融汇着他整晚的思绪。

    相信他许给你多么多么美好的生活,要给他鼓励,因为鼓励会让他创造奇迹。

    不要总是打探他去哪,告诉他注意安全,你会等着他就可以。

    不要总说~我爱你~,他会半真半笑着说你烦,但不要不说,因为有时候,他们比女孩子更需要这句。

    他为你掉眼泪了,那么他是真的非常爱你,珍惜他的每一滴泪,不要道歉,不要安慰,握着他的手,默默的为他擦去泪滴。

    要信任他,他爱你,就什么都不会骗你,即使真的有欺骗,也是为让你们的爱情能够永远不离不弃。

    September 22

    When Christmas comes to town

    When Christmas comes to town

    La la la la ...

    I\'m wishing on a star
    And trying to believe
    That even though it\'s far
    He\'ll find me at Christmas Eve
    I guess Santa is busy
    Cause he never comes around
    I think of him when Christmas comes to town

    The best time of the year
    When everyone comes home
    With all this Christmas tear
    It\'s hard to be alone
    Putting up the Christmas tree
    With friends you come around
    It\'s so much fun when Christmas comes to town

    Presents for the children wrapped in red and green
    All the things I\'ve heard about, but never really see
    No one will be sleeping on the night of Christmas Eve
    Hoping Santa\'s on his way

    Presents for the children wrapped in red and green
    All the things I\'ve heard about, but never really see
    No one will be sleeping on the night of Christmas Eve
    Hoping Santa\'s on his way

    When Santa\'s sleigh bells ring
    I listen all around
    The herald angels sing
    I never hear a sound
    And all the dreams of children
    Once lies will all be found
    That\'s all I want when Christmas comes to town
    That\'s all I want when Christmas comes to town

    September 19

    the blue day book

    Everybody has blue days.

    These are miserable days when you feel lousy, grumpy, lonely, and utterly exhausted.

    Days when you feel small and insignificant,

    when everything seems just out of reach.

    You can’t rise to the occasion.

    Just getting started seems impossible.

    On blue days you can become paranoid that everyone is out to get you.

    This is not always such a bad thing.

    You feel frustrated and anxious, which can induce a nail-biting frenzy that can escalate into a triple-chocolate-mud-cake-eating frenzy in a blink of an eye!

    On blue days you feel like you’re floating in an ocean of sadness.

    You’re about to burst into tears at any moment and you don’t even know why.

    Ultimately, you feel like you’re wandering through life without purpose.

    You’re not sure how much longer you can hang on,

    and you feel like shouting, “Will someone please shout me!”

    It doesn’t take much to bring on a blue day.

    You might just wake up not feeling or looking your best,

    find some new wrinkles, put on a little weight, or get a huge pimple on your nose.

    You could forget your date’s name or have an embarrassing photograph published.

    You might get dumped, divorced, or fired, make a fool of yourself in public, be afflicted with a demeaning nickname,

    or just have a plain old bad-hair day.

    Maybe work is a pain in the butt.

    You’re under major pressure to fill someone else’s shoes,

    your boss is picking on you,

    and everyone in the office is driving you crazy.

    You might have a splitting headache,

    or a slipped dish, bad breath, a toothache, chronic gas, dry lips,

    or a nasty ingrown toenail.

    Whatever the reason, you’re convinced that someone up there doesn’t like you.

    Oh what to do, what to dooo?

    Well, if you’re like most people,

    you’ll hide behind a flimsy belief that everything will sort itself out.

    Then you’ll spend the rest of your life looking over your shoulder,

    waiting for everything to go wrong all over again.

    All the while becoming crusty and cynical or a pathetic, sniveling victim.

    Until you get so depressed that you lie down and beg the earth to swallow you up or, even worse, become addicted to Billy Joel songs.

    This is crazy,

    because you’re only young once and you’re never old twice.

    September 05

    The furthest distance in the world

    The furthest distance in the world 

    The furthest distance in the world
    Is not between life and death
    But when I stand in front of you
    Yet you don''t know that
    I love you 

    The furthest distance in the world
    Is not when i stand in front of you 
    Yet you can''t see my love
    But when undoubtedly knowing the love from both
    Yet cannot be together 

    The furthest distance in the world
    Is not being apart while being in love
    But when plainly can not resist the yearning
    Yet pretnending you have never been in my heart 

    The furthest distance in the world
    Is not pretnending you have never been in my heart
    But using one''s indifferent heart 
    To sig an uncrossable river
    For the one who loves you